One day, an army of frogs are playing near the forbidden well. The well is said to be forbidden because of their history, once you fall in it, you have now more way out.
Accidentally, two of the frogs fell in the well. The two frogs are swimming for their survival. Their friends worried about what they'll gonna do to save the two frogs. Suddenly, they remembered that no frogs have survived from the peril. So they shouted to the two frogs:
"Hey! Don't waste your effort climbing! You can no longer be saved! In our history, there were no frogs who survived once they fall on the well!" said the frogs.
One of the frog heard his friends shouting, then he remembered their history. He was already on the half of the well, but he jumped and dropped at the bottom. And so he died! But the other frog still continued climbing! He is giving his all effort to survive. His friends were discouraging him not to climb anymore because he will never be saved at all.
The frog still climb, and climb, and climb. Little by little, he reached the top. He was saved!
The other frogs were amazed because he was the first frog who survived in the well. They asked him how did he managed to survived.
The frog said "Thank You guys, i survived because you cheered for me!"
The frogs were confused, they were not cheering, they were actually discouraging him.
As they were chatting about what happened, the frogs found out that their friend who survived from the peril was deaf.... (*end)
INSIGHTS:
I just want to share to you this very inspiring story of the deaf frog. His friends were discouraging him not to waste effort for his survival, yet, since the frog was deaf, he thought that his friends were cheering for him that's why he was saved from the peril.
Inspiring isn't it?!
Ito ang paraan: MAGBINGI-BINGIHAN tayo sa mga discouragement ng ibang tao! Huwag natin sila pakikinggan. Don't live on the shadows of the other people. Close your ears to all the negatives voices.
Think of them like a CHEER! Isipin nalang natin na pinagchi-cheer nila tayo for our success! Huwag na huwag tayo makikinig sa sasabihin ng iba! Live your life! That's yours! It's free!
Listen to the positive ones! Makinig dun sa mga makakatulong sa'yo para maabot ang mga pangarap mo! "Pakinggan mo ang mga boses na makakatulong sa pagbuo ng pagkatao mo!"
Be a deaf to the discouragements, and be a listener to the enlightenment! (tama!!!)
All of us know that in every field of profession, they have their own jargons and technical words..
Sa IT, meron din tayo nyan..
And here's a list of funny jargons in IT which are cleverly defined in a very different way ahaha..
LOG ON: Making the wood stove hotter
LOG OFF: Don`t add wood
MONITOR : Keep an eye on the wood stove
MEGAHERTZ: When a big log drops on your barefoot in the morning (ahaha ah geeky word ng AWTS!!)
FLOPPY DISK : What you get from piling too much wood
RAM: The hydraulic thing that makes the wood splitter work (ahaha inuman na!)
DRIVE: Getting home during most of the winter (ehe christmas vacation!)
FLASH DRIVE: Driving in a hurry because you're late (fast and furious ahaha)
PROMPT: What you wish the mail was during the snow season
ENTER: Come on in (ahaha wow! may bisita ahahah)
WINDOWS: What you shut when it gets cold (ahahaha oo nga naman!)
SCREEN: What is a must during black fly season
CHIP: What you munch during the beer sessions (ehehe piatos at nova ahaha)
MICROCHIP: What's left in the bag when the chips are gone (ahaha tira tira nalang!)
LAPTOP: Where the grandkids sit (and sleep! ehehe)
KEYBOARD: Where you suppose to put the keys so that Misses can find them
SOFTWARE: The plastic picnic utensils, ya? (kutsara at tinidor daw! ehe)
MOUSE: What leaves them little turds in the cupboard (where the cat?! ehe)
PORT: Where do commercial fishing boats dock
WORMS: These are what an early birds catches (yum yum!)
BITS: Past tense of bite
BYTES: Plural of bite
CPU: A text message saying "Your Cell phone!" (ahaha.. wow! d2 n me!)
RANDOM ACCESS MEMORY: When you can't remember how much you spent so much money on your PARTY, last night. (ahaha random lang kasi..)
ahahaha... funny!
COMPLIMENTS OR NO COMPLIMENTS??
to compliment or not to compliment that is the question..
note: this blog is only for alpha males... ..like me...haha!
according to david de angelo's email to my brother;
shortcutin ko na lang..
(by the way de angelo is the author of the books: 24 traits of a superior alpha male, double your dating, the ultimate mistake men make with women...etc...)
" Women tell us they want us to compliment them.
Your mom told you to be nice to girls, right?
And we guys like to really "turn up" the Compliments when we LIKE a woman...
But here's the question:
Do compliments create ATTRACTION when you firstmeet a woman? "...
Most of the time the answer is NO.
I have a word for guys who like to give womenlots of compliments when they first meet her.
That word is WUSSY.
charles: nakita ko sa dictionary walang word na wussy, pero palagay ko root word ito ng word na'WUSS' which exactly means "A person who is physically weak and ineffectual".
Ang sagot sa kanya ng isang babae na nag email:
"I agree that your "funny/cocky" routine works verywell and women are attracted to it. Yet, I have todisagree with you on one aspect, women LOVE to becomplimented. They live for it. Why else, but toget men's attention and be complimented, do theyspend hours getting ready, and buy all that sexyclothing? Sure, their faces light up when you makethem laugh or they really have fun. But, how manytimes have you seen that special girl smile at youand kiss you like there's no tomorrow when youtell her she's the most incredible thing in theworld and that she's so beautiful you just can'tstop loving her? Probably never, because you thinkthat's a "wuss" thing to do. But, you don't knowhow wrong you are."....
but then ang paniniwala ni david de angelo is:
A) We humans (and I'm talking about women inparticular here) don't always REALIZE what weREALLY want.
B) We humans don't like to admit what's REALLYgoing on inside of us, because it can beirrational and illogical.
C) It's very important to realize that there is aCRITICAL difference between a girl you've just metor have dated a few times and a SPECIAL girl inyour life.
at eto ang isa sa mga nagustuhan kong sinabi nia;
"Do women love to be complimented?
I think so.
In fact, I think that many really ATTRACTIVEwomen FEED off of attention and compliments. Themore attention and compliments they get, thebetter and more powerful they feel. It's an egoboost."...
"BUT... and it's a BUTTTTT bigger than J-Lo's,this doesn't mean that a woman will feel ATTRACTEDto you if you give her compliments.
Attractive women get compliments in variousforms all the time. In fact, they're so used togetting compliments, that's what they EXPECT.
As a matter of fact, if you start talking to anattractive woman and say, "Wow, you're reallybeautiful. I mean, you're like a goddess... areyou a model or an actress?" etc., the most LIKELYresponse you're going to get is her giving you thecold shoulder."....
why?
Because SHE GOT WHAT SHE NEEDED FROM YOU andyou showed her that you're JUST LIKE EVERY OTHERguy out there that will worship her for herphysical beauty.
As a general rule, you ALWAYS want to avoidbeing mentally slotted into the "average" and"like all the other guys" category at ALL COST.
I have started conversations by giving a womana compliment, but I NEVER let it become part ofthe actual conversation. If anything, I beginteasing and making fun of her looks as soon aspossible, if she's REALLY hot-looking. And I nevergive the compliment in a way that says, "I'mintimidated because you're obviously very powerfuland desirable."
now its time for my very own opinion (sarili kong opinion):
magaling talagang magisip si david de angelo about socializing with opposite sex, attracting and seducting...
tama nga naman, umaasa ka na kapag sinabi mo sa isang magandang babae na cute sia, sexy sia. ay magugustuhan ka niya?well 2 words for you: ASA KA!!, misconception un, praising is never attracting. bakit mo nga naman sasabihin sa kanya un? eh matagal na niang alam un dibah?. libo libong lalake na ang nakapagsabi sa kanya niyan? gasgas na yan tol! kung sasabihin mo yan sa isang babae or sa babaeng natitipuhan mo.. what makes you any different from the other guys na nagsabi rin? pare-parehas lang kayo.
ang gusto ng mga lalake ay maging iba sila from the other guys para sia ang magustuhan/piliin ng babaeng gusto niya...pero pano ka magiging iba nian? kung pupurihin mo din sia, at bibigyan mo sia ng maraming compliments katulad ng mga ibang lalakena nahuhumaling din sa kanya..
tsk..tsk..! too bad for those guys na ganon din ang ginagawa..(ako din ganyan)
once na sinabi mo sa girl na napakaganda nia, wala ng thrill iyon para sa side ng babae,kasi nakuha na ng babae ang gusto niang marinig from you.
"girls always love to be complimented"
pinuri mo na sia, un na un..wala na siang kailangan pa sau, nasabi mo naang gustong gusto niang marinig from u. you can never attract an attractive womanthat way bro.
sabi ni pareng david: "The thing to do when you meet an attractivewoman is to actually TEASE
AND BUST on her a bit,rather than giving her compliments.
This effectively scrambles her whole programand causes her to lose her composure. It takes heroff guard and shakes her out of her world... soyou can actually have a conversation."
SUMMARY:
So in summary, it's true... women do in factlike compliments. But, if you want to make a womanfeel that magical feeling of ATTRACTION for you,then you might think twice about giving them tooearly on.
Women like compliments that they have to WORKFOR a lot more than the ones that just come tothem.
CASE STUDY:
Remember the newsletter awhile back with theguy who walks up to women and says, "Your fly isopen", then walks away?
The woman always comes and finds him to say,"You're a JERK!"... and then he laughs at her...and the woman winds up going out with him.
Verrrrrry interesting.
Do you think it would work the same way if hewalked up to women and said, "You're amazinglybeautiful" and then walked away?
I think not.
The world's first personal computer is Kenbak-1 designed by John V. Blakenbaker, it includes 256 bytes of memory (Wow! 256 bytes ahahah)
The inventor of the typewriter is none other than QWERT YUIOP in which he left his signature at the first row letters of the keyboard! (Oo nga noh! Amazing!!)
The world's first portable computer is Osborne I, weighing 24 pounds
Computers only understand two digits, 0 and 1, this is known as Binary digits.
ARPANET (Advance Research Project Agency Network) was known as the forefather of modern Internet!
CIH is also know as Chernobyl Virus (Oh! Spooky! Won't go there ahaha)
Douglas Englebart invented the mouse (not the one hunted by the cat ahaha)
The first computer with GUI and mouse is Apple Lisa (not the red one which keeps the doctor away ahaha)
Sony invented the first 3 1/2 inch floppy disk
Microsoft Windows 98 contains approximately 18 million lines of code (aw! headache!)
The first message of ARPANET is "lo" (ahaha ang haba ah!)
What is Error 404? The answer is "Site not found" - in http (aw! i hate it when i encounter that!)
Toy Story was the first full length computer generated animated movie (i thought it was Voltes V ahaha)
There are estimated 800 Million web pages on the web and it doubles in size every 8 months
The fastest computer in the world is CM-5 "thinking machine", it can perform 131 billion operations per second (that's what you call "the flash" ahaha)
Women are roughly 20% of IT professionals (How about men? ahaha)
Who is Linus Torvalds? He is the inventor of Linux!
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