WHY YOU SHOULD NOT COMPLIMENT A WOMAN?? (2nd Blog ko)...

COMPLIMENTS OR NO COMPLIMENTS??
to compliment or not to compliment that is the question..

note: this blog is only for alpha males... ..like me...haha!

according to david de angelo's email to my brother;

shortcutin ko na lang..

(by the way de angelo is the author of the books: 24 traits of a superior alpha male, double your dating, the ultimate mistake men make with women...etc...)

" Women tell us they want us to compliment them.
Your mom told you to be nice to girls, right?
And we guys like to really "turn up" the Compliments when we LIKE a woman...
But here's the question:

Do compliments create ATTRACTION when you firstmeet a woman? "...

Most of the time the answer is NO.

I have a word for guys who like to give womenlots of compliments when they first meet her.
That word is WUSSY.

charles: nakita ko sa dictionary walang word na wussy, pero palagay ko root word ito ng word na'WUSS' which exactly means "A person who is physically weak and ineffectual".

Ang sagot sa kanya ng isang babae na nag email:

"I agree that your "funny/cocky" routine works verywell and women are attracted to it. Yet, I have todisagree with you on one aspect, women LOVE to becomplimented. They live for it. Why else, but toget men's attention and be complimented, do theyspend hours getting ready, and buy all that sexyclothing? Sure, their faces light up when you makethem laugh or they really have fun. But, how manytimes have you seen that special girl smile at youand kiss you like there's no tomorrow when youtell her she's the most incredible thing in theworld and that she's so beautiful you just can'tstop loving her? Probably never, because you thinkthat's a "wuss" thing to do. But, you don't knowhow wrong you are."....
but then ang paniniwala ni david de angelo is:

A) We humans (and I'm talking about women inparticular here) don't always REALIZE what weREALLY want.

B) We humans don't like to admit what's REALLYgoing on inside of us, because it can beirrational and illogical.

C) It's very important to realize that there is aCRITICAL difference between a girl you've just metor have dated a few times and a SPECIAL girl inyour life.
at eto ang isa sa mga nagustuhan kong sinabi nia;

"Do women love to be complimented?
I think so.
In fact, I think that many really ATTRACTIVEwomen FEED off of attention and compliments. Themore attention and compliments they get, thebetter and more powerful they feel. It's an egoboost."...

"BUT... and it's a BUTTTTT bigger than J-Lo's,this doesn't mean that a woman will feel ATTRACTEDto you if you give her compliments.
Attractive women get compliments in variousforms all the time. In fact, they're so used togetting compliments, that's what they EXPECT.

As a matter of fact, if you start talking to anattractive woman and say, "Wow, you're reallybeautiful. I mean, you're like a goddess... areyou a model or an actress?" etc., the most LIKELYresponse you're going to get is her giving you thecold shoulder."....
why?

Because SHE GOT WHAT SHE NEEDED FROM YOU andyou showed her that you're JUST LIKE EVERY OTHERguy out there that will worship her for herphysical beauty.
As a general rule, you ALWAYS want to avoidbeing mentally slotted into the "average" and"like all the other guys" category at ALL COST.

I have started conversations by giving a womana compliment, but I NEVER let it become part ofthe actual conversation. If anything, I beginteasing and making fun of her looks as soon aspossible, if she's REALLY hot-looking. And I nevergive the compliment in a way that says, "I'mintimidated because you're obviously very powerfuland desirable."


now its time for my very own opinion (sarili kong opinion):


magaling talagang magisip si david de angelo about socializing with opposite sex, attracting and seducting...
tama nga naman, umaasa ka na kapag sinabi mo sa isang magandang babae na cute sia, sexy sia. ay magugustuhan ka niya?well 2 words for you: ASA KA!!, misconception un, praising is never attracting. bakit mo nga naman sasabihin sa kanya un? eh matagal na niang alam un dibah?. libo libong lalake na ang nakapagsabi sa kanya niyan? gasgas na yan tol! kung sasabihin mo yan sa isang babae or sa babaeng natitipuhan mo.. what makes you any different from the other guys na nagsabi rin? pare-parehas lang kayo.
ang gusto ng mga lalake ay maging iba sila from the other guys para sia ang magustuhan/piliin ng babaeng gusto niya...pero pano ka magiging iba nian? kung pupurihin mo din sia, at bibigyan mo sia ng maraming compliments katulad ng mga ibang lalakena nahuhumaling din sa kanya..
tsk..tsk..! too bad for those guys na ganon din ang ginagawa..(ako din ganyan)
once na sinabi mo sa girl na napakaganda nia, wala ng thrill iyon para sa side ng babae,kasi nakuha na ng babae ang gusto niang marinig from you.
"girls always love to be complimented"
pinuri mo na sia, un na un..wala na siang kailangan pa sau, nasabi mo naang gustong gusto niang marinig from u. you can never attract an attractive womanthat way bro.


sabi ni pareng david: "The thing to do when you meet an attractivewoman is to actually TEASE

AND BUST on her a bit,rather than giving her compliments.
This effectively scrambles her whole programand causes her to lose her composure. It takes heroff guard and shakes her out of her world... soyou can actually have a conversation."




SUMMARY:

So in summary, it's true... women do in factlike compliments. But, if you want to make a womanfeel that magical feeling of ATTRACTION for you,then you might think twice about giving them tooearly on.
Women like compliments that they have to WORKFOR a lot more than the ones that just come tothem.



CASE STUDY:

Remember the newsletter awhile back with theguy who walks up to women and says, "Your fly isopen", then walks away?
The woman always comes and finds him to say,"You're a JERK!"... and then he laughs at her...and the woman winds up going out with him.
Verrrrrry interesting.
Do you think it would work the same way if hewalked up to women and said, "You're amazinglybeautiful" and then walked away?
I think not.